Honestly, someone reads the profile?
We were thinking because people ask us what we are looking for, what do we like, and so on...
I they ask that questions is obvious they do not read the profile.
We want to hear from you....[kiss][kiss][kiss]
Same with us. We don't mind meeting single guys but only at clubs. We enjoy LIGHT BDSM play but keep getting requests to basically hurt people. Not on here but on other sites. Why can't people read?
Thanks for your comment.
Yeah, you say it, not only here, but on other sites. As you talked about singles, even them (mainly them) don't read the profile. Sometimes we receive some messages in which the first phrase is like "when I will have the pleasure to fuck your ass".......for God sake, elegance and style please.
We completely agree with you not who doesn't read and doesn't write closer to acquaint.
Skype of video and pictures interests all
We think that simply the majority wants to take a look on that they don't have that or they aren't capable on more
We had ppl asking:
Where are you from?
Are you into full or soft?
Do you accept single guys?
Is Mrs Four bi?
Are you new in the lifestyle?
All the answers are in our profile..........
Some people can't be bothered reading folks profiles so when that happens they just get blocked I'm afraid
Personally, if they are that ignorant, that they don't even bother to come to your page, and send you friend request, or ask you questions that are answered in your profile, we don't even answer them or simply tell them, take a time and read our profile I don't know what is the purpose to just collect friends, that you would never even contact them, or send a thank you note, for accepting the friend request..... I think, many people did not grasp the concept of this lifestyle yet!
The effect of the curse of Facebook, we guess - twisting the original meaning of the word "friends". What we appreciate, however, that there are a few layers of friendship on SpicyMatch. Very clever design indeed and plenty of innovation vs FB. So when someone asks us for friendship, we say yes but without a subsequenr message, photo exchange, or any genuine interest in meeting in person etc,. that's just about as far as they can get. We use higher layers of friendship wisely (we hope at least)
Very well said ALTAR, many people didn't catch what is all about the lifestyle. When we add a virtual friends (so as to say) is because we have some interest, maybe one day in the NEAR future we could arrange to know that or this.....
Don't have to thank Believe.
We initiated the discussion because we realize that maybe the majority didn't catch what is the meaning of being swingers, this same majority believes or was told them that being swingers is the same as gang bang, or cuckold, or dogging, or even that mechanical sex we see all over the place, where everybody F***S everybody, without a premise, the main goal for them is fulfilling the holes, if you know what I mean, just that. We don't know about other couples, but swinger is a lifestyle where you make new friends, discover the affinities, let the sensuality and flirting arises, with style, elegance, respect.....
...isn't it exciting to promote a good dinner, drinks, soft music, in a sexy mood, and let things happen ? Of course we love sex, but this is not our life. I want to thank all comments to this blog, from Julia.